Who You Are

You became who you had to be to survive.
Now it's time to lead from who you really are. Uncover the survival-driven success patterns shaping your leadership

This isn’t just a quiz.
It’s a mirror—the version of you that made it work—even when everything was stacked against you.

It's designed to reveal the survival-driven success patterns still shaping how you lead, achieve, and relate.

In less than 2 minutes, you’ll uncover your Survival-Driven Success Archetype and receive a custom toolkit to help you lead with clarity, wholeness, and self-trust so you can finally lead in a way that feels like home

START WITH THE MIRROR

Hello

I’m cindy

Certified Trauma-Informed Leadership
& Executive Coach

You’re in the right place if you’ve beaten the odds,but can’t shake the feeling that it still doesn’t feel like enough.

I know what it’s like to be the one everyone leans on.
To hold it all together, even when no one asked how you were doing.

I’m the oldest daughter of refugees,
and when my sister was in a life-altering car accident resulting in severe traumatic brain injury at 17, I moved back home to help care for her. Because that’s what you do when someone needs you more than you need your dreams.

I didn’t come from much. But I built everything—from scratch.
The life that looked steady and successful from the outside, even when I was quietly holding it all on the inside.

For a long time, I believed being okay meant being in control. Being productive. Being needed. Being more.

I’ve lived survival-driven
success patterns.
I’ve practiced them in
my own leadership.
I’ve researched them at
the highest level.
And now—I help women unlearn them, without shame.

That’s why I do this work.
For the ones who’ve survived their way into success, but are ready for something more real.
Not more performing.
Not more pressure.
Just the space to be who you really are.